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一生只谈一次恋爱是最好的，经历的太多了，会麻木；分离多了，会习惯；换恋人多了，会比较；到最后，你不会再相信爱情；你会自暴自弃；你会行尸走肉；你会与你不爱的人结婚，就这样过一辈子。

2010-03-19T06:12:00.000-07:00

Suddenly saw in FB~ quite meaning full~~then post it in here

一生只谈一次恋爱是最好的，经历的太多了，会麻木；分离多了，会习惯；换恋人多了，会比较；到最后，你不会再相信爱情；你会自暴自弃；你会行尸走肉；你会与你不爱的人结婚，就这样过一辈子。

关于爱情：不要认为后面还有更好的，因为现在拥有的就是最好的。不要认为还年轻可以晚些结婚，爱情是不等年龄的。不要因为距离太远而放弃，爱情可以和你一起坐火车的。不要因为对方不富裕而放弃，只要不是无能的人，勤劳可以让你们富裕的。不要因为父母反对而放弃，你会发现因为这个原因而反放弃的爱情，将是你一生的悔恨。其实对于爱情，越单纯越幸福。一生只谈一次恋爱是最好的，经历的太多了，会麻木；分离多了，会习惯；换恋人多了，会比较；到最后，你不会再相信爱情；你会自暴自弃；你会行尸走肉；你会与你不爱的人结婚，就这样过一辈子。

也许爱情是一部忧伤的童话，惟其遥远才真实。放弃一个爱你的人并不痛苦，放弃一个你爱的人那才痛苦。若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离，若是无缘总是相聚也无法合意。凡事不必太在意，更不需去强求，就让一切随缘。逃避不一定躲得过；面对不一定最难过；孤独不一定不快乐；得到不一定长久；失去不一定不再拥有。爱是一种享受，即使痛苦也会觉得幸福；爱是一种体会，即使心碎也会觉得甜蜜；爱是一种经历，即使破碎也会觉得美丽；不要因为寂寞而错爱，不要因为错爱而寂寞一生。

关于伴侣：伴侣不是结婚时发誓非你不娶或非你不嫁的那个人，而是发现你身上有许多缺点仍然选择你的那个人；伴侣不是生活中你爱吃黄瓜ta也爱吃黄瓜的那个人，而是你吃蛋清ta吃蛋黄的那个人；伴侣不是天黑了和你一起手挽手走进饭店的那个人，而是守在门口巴望你回来共进晚餐的那个人；伴侣不是和你大谈爱情，把“我爱你”挂在嘴边的那个人，而是和你平淡的唠叨柴米油盐、锅碗瓢盆的那个人。在幸福的婚姻中，伴侣已不是一个具体的人，而是你和ta在几十年的岁月中沉淀下来的：一份默契、一份温情、一份平淡、一份理解、一份宽容。爱ta就要让ra开心，这就是伴侣……

关于承诺：在古希腊传说中，情侣都将戒指套在对方的中指上，因为他们相信那儿有一根血管直通心脏。所以戒指的意思就是用心承诺！但是人世间有多少爱能生死白头，又有多少的情可以天长地久？所以你选择共度一生得未必是你最爱的，你最爱的未必能和你共度一生。多少的有情人走不进彼此的今生，只能苦苦地相约于来世；而多少的男男女女走过爱情走进婚姻却不会再珍惜彼此的付出。所以记得珍惜你爱的人，把每一个平淡的今天当成是彼此相依的最后一刻，好好握紧爱人的手，即使ta容颜已老，即使ta满面沧桑，那也是你记忆中永恒的温馨。别忘了守住对ta的承诺，别忘了牵住ta的手，一生一世一辈子……

关于人生：人生如梦，岁月无情。蓦然回首，才发现人活着是一种心情。穷也好，富也好，得也好，失也好。一切都是过眼云烟。想想，不管昨天、今天、明天，能豁然开朗就是美好的一天。不管亲情、友情、爱情，能永远珍惜就是好心情。记得有一个经典短信这样写着：曾经拥有的不要忘记；已经得到的更加珍惜；属于自己的不要放弃；已经失去的留作回忆；想要得到的一定要努力；累了把心靠岸；选择了就不要后悔；苦了才懂得满足；痛了才享受生活；伤了才明白坚强；总有起风的清晨；总有绚烂的黄昏；总有流星的夜晚。人生就像一张有去无回的单程车票，没有彩排，每一场都是现场直播。把握好每次演出便是对人生最好的珍惜。把握现在，畅享人生！

关于微笑：被人误解的时候能微微的一笑，这是一种素养；受委屈的时候能坦然的一笑，这是一种大度；吃亏的时候能开心的一笑，这是一种豁达；处窘境的时候能自嘲的一笑，这是一种智慧；无奈的时候能达观的一笑，这是一种境界；危难的时候能泰然一笑，这是一种大气；被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑，这是一种自信；失恋的时候能轻轻的一笑，这是一种洒脱。不管是有什么事情，为了什么原因，我们每天都要开心一笑~~

关于生活：日出东海落西山，愁也一天，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦；每天领取谋生钱，多也喜欢，少也喜欢；少荤多素日三餐，粗也香甜，细也香甜；新旧衣服不挑捡，好也御寒，赖也御寒；常与知己聊聊天，古也谈谈，今也谈谈；全家老少互慰勉，贫也相安，富也相安。

关于幸福：相传幸福是个美丽的玻璃球，跌碎散落在世间的每个角落。有的人捡到多些，有的人捡到少些，却没有人能拥有全部。爱你所爱选你所选，珍惜现在所拥有的一切。人活着就是一种心情，把握今天，设置明天，储存永远。只要用心感受，幸福就会永远存在。

人总是对自己拥有的东西不珍惜，直到不再拥有时才会加倍怀念，而在得知自己快失去自己所拥有的东西而又无能为力时，就寻死觅活地不肯放手，歇斯底里往往发生在这个时候，而对于生命的执著确实是到死才放手！

人生，没有那么简单……幸福伴随悲伤，快乐总和痛苦相伴，这就是人生。今天总要过去，明天充满未知，自己活得快乐没有遗憾就好。

Under Maintenance

2009-10-23T05:01:00.000-07:00

Sry for the inconvienience....

coz the author is busy with the test, assignment...

anyone visit this blog please come again at the next week

after wednesday =) (28/10/09)

the blog will be updated again >.<

Im SO SORRY!!

12th October 2009

2009-10-12T07:24:00.000-07:00

Not much thing to describe about the lecture on today~~

just pass thru the Broken English Econs Lecture

and the F*rking Boring FOB Lecture >_<

but the L&L Tutorial class is funny since our team is making fun wif it =D

But b4 the FOB class~~

go to SSD and found heng hao gang playing UNO lol~~

then "bryan kun" is came~~

he wanted to capture "sue chan" photo but failed~~

then i teach him the skill~~

and i captured one~~xD

instead of other's privacy so it wont post in here =D

that's the fun on that time~~haha =D

when i going back to old house and planning to go for swimming...

sumthing "suprise" is coming over me~~

when i making a turn and going to basement...

sumthing happened!!!

inside my front wheel de thing spoil at that time!!!!

and my car jam at that time...

can't go further or reverse and block other ppl way~~

the thing inside my brain is panic, panic, still is the panic...

then i call my fren talk talk talk~~~

sumthing that i duno~~~

and called mum...

but she call me find a hammer whack the car or burn it =<

Finally i go looking for a "foreman"~

is so lucky that i still can found a "foreman" around 6 x.x

then he go and changed sumthing and charge me 200 bucks T_T

lucky my mum give back to me =D

i just post the pic since i duno how to describe that thing lol~~

the thing that black black de inside the pic =D

Thingy of Genting Trip

2009-10-09T09:47:00.000-07:00

The time had passes over bit for me to remind the story of genting...

so not so detail for it =D

I just remember that i have to wait up around 5.20 a.m to get the earliest round of LRT from Sri Petaling, and change station to the last station of putra LRT in Kelana Jaya...

It Seriously make my life so difficult at that time---->Fault of my classmate( Joel =D )

and my ear is popping when going up the Genting since the pressure of air is changing =X

we played all the thing that we can play in the theme park and the package is quite worth for it...

68 bucks can play alot thing---> indoor+outdoor+ flying coaster+ bowling+ climbing wall+ other's that i forget =P

just pick something that valued for me and post it here~~=D

me, joel and nattachya dun dare go for the spaceshot~

esther and fahana almost breathless when they play spaceshot xD

we also having a snow war inside the snowworld =D

although it is negative 4 celcius~

but is fun~~

and got 1 snow sliding inside snow world is extremely fast~

2 times faster than roller coster i think~

Joel is the most innocent person that attacked by 3 person =P

by using the "snowball" that make by ourself

Flying coaster might be the newest roller coaster in genting

The outlook that really like the spiderman one~~haha~

that 1 is the most excited part in this genting trip~~

is too bad that we only can take for once in this trip ><

got 2 roller croaster that i forget the name that out of service~

in fact of that, we can't try all the roller croaster~~

Esther and me didnt try the spinner and the pirate ship since we scare us

will feel bad after played it.

(p/s: i tried in last trip, feeling not that good)

Joel and me didnt climb the wall since we are overweight =X

girls gang try their best to archieve the three quarter of height then they give up edi =D

but Charlie can archieve the TOP!!!!!

(p/s:it proves that boy stronger than girls? =P)

We also meet Elaine they all in theme park since they cancelled their schedule to other place~

but is abit regretful for that we didnt take a pic for whole gang that in Genting.

And i get my 1st Strike in my bowling life =D

We approximately finished the thing that we can play in the Genting.

exclude those need to pay alot de =D

We get Ride on the cabal car on 7.20p.m++

(p/s: the feeling of cabal car is good but i afraid height

and my hand is always sweating around ><)

It was about 12 o'clock for me to reach home~

but i really wanted to say that~

IT REALLY IS A NICE TRIP~=D

08-10-09 (Day of Genting)

2009-10-08T09:27:00.000-07:00

Just the time i get home and finished my washing and starting stay with the computer ><

then start to write this blog again =D

Today is the day of trip to genting

the member got Joel, Esther, Nattachya, Farhana and myself =D

but we met elaine gang's they all at the genting there...

today we had passed thru alot of activities

we also took alot of pic =D

but the worst thing of this day is i need to travel around...

since i not driving car and need to go get to 1 utama.

in fact of that, i nid to use the LRT+ putra to reach there.

travel for twice a day is nearly taking my life >.<

hopefully next time wont be so "mafan" haha~

For the detail of the activities, will be posted in the next blog entry =D

since i was tired and feel like to slp~

the detail will be shown next time =D

Notice

2009-09-16T05:35:00.000-07:00

Sry....cause recently the line had been suspended and i moving to others place.
it will be update daily soon =)
the post threat will be hold on for bit longer time =D
pls forgive me

1st of September 2009

2009-09-01T02:48:00.000-07:00

long time didnt write the blog edi...

normally i juz abandon it as usally xD

now me not at home yet...

although felt abit not comfortable...

but still going to fren house to online~xD

actually today got FOB classes de...

but i felt uncomfortable so i didnt go lorx~~

sry for wei xian since he need to attend the class alone >.<

recently i'm swifting myself to new house...

that's the reason for me can't online recently~~

need the TM ppl fix the telephone line 1st~~haiz~

now is so boring and my fren is sleeping atm...

and i grab his comp for use xD

just now suft net for 3 hours...

my eye is so blur for the moment =D

i need a rest~lol

p/s: actually i duno what im doing atm, just nothing to do and come here to write something...xD

this semester is sucks for me since i nid to attend two subject that i attend b4 de...

feel like skip the class always lols~~

get fat recently...

anyone got idea to keep fit? lol

later go back and finish my FOB assignment!!!!

3th of July

2009-07-03T03:35:00.000-07:00

Now geh time is 6.42 p.m

i just woke up no longe ago only O.O

recently duno why like to late slp edi...

and wake up early...

then take a long nap when afterNoon +.+

such an unhealthy life >.<

this whole week give me waste liao...

it's a STUDY WEEK for my final ler x.x

but i still like to stick with the computer and doing nothing

Business Computing...

Principle and Practice of Management...

Principle of Accounting...

HPS...

got 4 subject waiting me neh x.x

the most not confident geh subject is business computing...

that freaking derick so stingy in giving the marks >.<

so i havent get the idea from the BC ler ><"

i wan get at least 50++ for each subject in my final ><"

Sharing~

2009-06-30T21:45:00.000-07:00

Take From Friends blog :-)

Resource:http://wynn-baby.blogspot.com

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。

*在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好，这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！

*听到了吗？明白了吗？
难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。

如果每个人都
懒得讲话、
懒得倾听、
懒得制造惊喜、
懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间，
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住：
有活力的爱情，
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！
*有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了，当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30钟，他的男朋友很不高兴的说：你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了，我以後再也不会等你了！刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了，她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了

*同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境；女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上，此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。

你体会到了吗？
*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！

爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！
懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。
*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。

*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！

*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住，
喝酒不要超过六分醉，
吃饭不要超过七分饱，
爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？
我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！

*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求，
而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

Slacking...

2009-06-11T09:01:00.000-07:00

aikz~

HPS haven't write even one words...

but i still dun wan get start...

maybe is i no mood to do it now...

but the due date soon ler >"<

i nid some1 push me...

feel slacking now....

i might sad in this current moment...

but i'm still wondering why i will moodless =.=

i wan hang out!!!dun wan think about this -.- i wan my mind free!!!!

if not i hardly to figure out my essay =.=

i nid more fun!!!!who wan go shopping call me!!!!

The following part i will use chinese to write, feel sorry for my fren whom duno chinese >"<

一直没做功课，只是一直的上网....

无所事事,不是看小说,就是看人家的部落格...

刚刚看到意宁的...

才开始问自己...

我有多久...

没有和老死一起出去玩了...

他们最近怎样了??

还好吧??

花费了半年...

我到底忘记她了吗??

我可以开始让别人进入我的心房了吗??

很多的秘密，藏在心里很久了...

谁可以真正的可以和我分享呢??

抚摸着自己那把很久没动过的吉他...

才知道...

自己...多久没有玩音乐了呢??

也很久...没唱歌了...技巧都忘完了....

想起和她还有吉他学会练吉他的时候...

也只能安慰自己...

一切都已成过去...

什么都只是回忆...

但是我还是没有办法抹除...

也许是我太执著了吧=.=

-完-

Opening...Of...The BLOG!!!

2009-06-11T08:52:00.000-07:00

Actually...

The blog is been created Long Long time ago...

just no mood to open it...

until this moment...

well~~

Welcome TO my blog...

Shred-mymind.blogspot.com!!!